So, here is my story:
We've got one. He's three. A little over two years ago we started trying for another. It took about 4ish or more months to get a positive test. I miscarried. So, we stopped trying. The beginning of last summer we started trying again.
No luck.
Until... Last Thanksgiving. But, I miscarried again.
So, this really annoying thing that people do (including me) has been brought to my attention. Asking questions like these:
"When are you guys going to have a baby?"
"When are you going to have another?"
"How many are you going to have?"
Here's the thing...
How do you know they're not TRYING?
Honestly, it hurts me to get questions like this.
A week or so ago we were at the park and my little guy was running around like normal (crazy). We were walking on the trail, he was running. There was an older couple and the man said this to me:
"How many do you have?"
"Just one."
"Well let me tell you, you need at least 3 or 4. 4 is optimum. Don't wait too long to have them either."
I know he didn't mean it bad at all. I really just wanted to cry and say "I'm trying!"
Just remember, you don't always know what's going on in someone else's life. So unless they bring it up, Don't Ask.
